Choosing your wedding dress is one of the most exciting - and sometimes overwhelming - parts of planning your big day! You’ve probably spent hours scrolling through Instagram and Pinterest, seeing everything from classic ballgowns to avant-garde silhouettes. The big question, though, is how do you choose a gown that feels perfect now but won't make you cringe when you look back at your photos in twenty years?
At Simply Elegant by Cheri, we help brides navigate this sweet spot between "timeless" and "trendy" every single day. Here’s our advice on how to find a dress you'll genuinely adore forever.
Defining Your Style Compass
The best place to start is with you. Don't worry about what’s "in" right now. Instead, think about the clothing you gravitate toward in your everyday life.
Are you a minimalist? A sleek crepe column dress or a simple A-line might be your timeless choice.
Do you love texture and romance? Layers of delicate lace or a soft tulle skirt offers enduring elegance.
Are you drawn to structure and drama? Consider a mikado silk ballgown with clean lines - it’s a classic for a reason!
Allure A1216 |
Signature Collection 1217B |
Your comfort level and personal style are the ultimate barometer for timelessness. A dress that feels authentically you will never go out of style.
Embracing Trends Thoughtfully
Trends aren't the enemy! They keep bridal fashion exciting and inject personality into your look. The key is to incorporate them in ways that don't dominate the entire aesthetic.
Think of it this way:
Timeless Foundation: Focus on a classic silhouette (A-line, sheath, ballgown) and a quality fabric (silk, crepe, traditional lace). This is the frame of your masterpiece.
Trendy Touches: Use current trends as beautiful accents. Are puffed sleeves having a moment? Go for a subtle, detachable pair. Is a low back popular? A tastefully plunging back is actually a beautiful, enduring detail. Are 3D floral appliqués everywhere? Use them sparingly on the bodice or skirt.
Casablanca Bridal 2570 |
Madison James MJ1160 |
Avoid dresses where the trend is the entire design, as these are the ones that can feel dated quickly. For example, an overly complicated cut-out or a color that's specific to only this season might lose its charm sooner than later.
The Power of Accessories
One of the easiest ways to bring a timeless gown into the current decade - or soften a trendier dress for enduring appeal - is through accessories.
A simple, sophisticated dress can be transformed with a dramatic, cathedral-length veil, which can be removed for the reception. Statement jewelry, a fashionable shoe, or a modern hairpiece can all add a contemporary flair without making the dress itself feel dated. Remember, accessories can be changed; the dress is forever!
Morilee 2907 |
Eddy K Italia EK1805 |
Ultimately, the dress you’ll always love is the one you feel the most beautiful, confident, and comfortable in. When you look at yourself in the mirror and your heart skips a beat, that’s your sign. Forget the labels of "timeless" or "trendy" - choose the dress that makes you feel like the most elegant version of yourself.
Ready to find that dress? Don't wait! Book your bridal appointment with Simply Elegant by Cheri today and let us help you uncover the gown you were always meant to wear. We can't wait to celebrate with you!